Slowing Down Without Stopping

In this reflective post, I revisit career advice from an early mentor about the importance of momentum. What once meant ambition, productivity, and professional advancement has gradually taken on new meaning in semi-retirement. Slowing down, he has learned, is not the same as stopping. Aging well may depend less on acceleration and more on maintaining purposeful forward motion fueled by gratitude, engagement, and intentional living.
The Night I Stopped Watching the Clock

This post reflects on a surprisingly simple lesson learned during a restless night: sometimes the harder we try to control things, the worse they become. A small decision to stop checking the time led to better sleep — and a broader reminder that aging gratefully may involve letting go of habits, worries, and quiet anxieties that no longer serve us.
Finding Balance Where There Is None
Just Be Nice

This reflective story reminds us that the value we carry through life is often built in the smallest moments of human kindness. In a late-night airport encounter years ago, I learned that simply choosing to be decent, not strategic or extraordinary, can leave a lasting impact and shape how we experience both business and life.
Situational Awareness: Paying Attention as We Age
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Situational Awareness: When We Stop Seeing
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Situational Awareness: Learning to See
Part 1 of 3

A childhood lesson from a Little League field becomes something much larger: learning not just to watch the ball, but to see the whole field. Situational awareness, understanding where you are, what’s changing, and who else is involved, can shape outcomes in subtle but meaningful ways. It may not eliminate risk, but it can shift the odds in our favor.
Wheel Chairs on the Jet Bridge
From Building Value to Living It – Aging Gratefully

ChrisMercer.net has a new look—and a more important shift in focus. For many years, this blog was about business valuation. That reflected my professional life – helping business owners, attorneys, and advisors understand, build, and realize the value of private businesses. Over the past few years, however, something has changed.




